‘I don’t accept that we failed!’ – Learn language to express a different point of view.
Jackie
Hello – welcome to the programme, with me, Jackie Dalton. This programme is all about expressions you can use when you think someone is wrong about something and you want to disagree with them.
EXAMPLE
John Humphrys
Well, you added those bits…
Tony Blair
No, no – let’s be absolutely clear, because before any of those things…
Jackie
We’re going to do this with the help of British Prime Minister, Tony Blair. He was recently interviewed by John Humphrys, a BBC journalist.
Tony Blair disagreed with quite a lot of the things John Humphrys said and we’re going to look at some of the language he used when he did this – language you could use in all kinds of situations when you disagree with someone.
In the first example, Tony Blair responds to John Humphrys by using one of the simplest words in the English language.
EXAMPLE
John Humphrys
Shouldn’t you be apologising to those people?
Tony Blair
No, I don’t think we should be apologising.
Jackie
No – a direct way of disagreeing. Be careful about how you use such direct language. As with a lot of language we’ll hear today, your tone of voice can be very important in how you come across. This person disagrees quite politely.
EXAMPLE
Voice 1
You always come to work late.
Voice 2
No, I don’t.
Jackie
But here, she sounds more aggressive.
EXAMPLE
No, I don’t.
Jackie
Listen to this next clip. What phrase does Tony Blair use in these examples to express his disagreement?
EXAMPLES
Tony Blair
You see, I mean, I don’t agree with that. I understand that’s the argument against what we’ve done, but I don’t agree with it.
John Humphrys
Bending the intelligence…
Tony Blair
Well, I don’t agree with that at all…
Tony Blair
I’m a great admirer of Kofi’s, but we obviously disagree about this issue.
Jackie
He uses the verb to agree in the negative – I don’t agree – and he uses the verb to disagree – I disagree. Now we’ll hear Tony Blair using a slightly more formal structure:
EXAMPLE
John Humphrys
And it’s made this country a more dangerous place.
Tony Blair
Well I don’t accept that, either.
Jackie
I don’t accept that – another way of saying you don’t agree with something that’s just been said.
EXAMPLE
John Humphrys
The failure of that responsibility…
Tony Blair
Well, I don’t accept that we failed in that responsibility.
Jackie
Sometimes you may agree with part of what someone says, but disagree with other parts. What structure does Tony Blair use to do that here?
EXAMPLE
John Humphrys
Many of them loyal to their own warlords.
Tony Blair
Well, I think that although it is true to say that there are far too many parts of the police that are sectarian and so on…
John Humphrys
They’re…
Jackie
Tony Blair shows that he agrees with some of what John Humphrys has said, but he tries to go on to say that there are other things he disagrees with.
We know he disagrees with part of what John has said because he uses the word although at the beginning of his sentence: Although it’s true to say. He never quite finishes his sentence to tell us what he doesn’t agree with so let’s listen to a more complete example of that phrase in use.
EXAMPLE
Voice 1
He doesn’t work hard enough and he’s bad for the company!
Voice 2
Although it’s true to say he doesn’t work as much as he should, I think he’s very clever and could help the company a lot.
Jackie
You could also use while instead of although.
EXAMPLE
While it’s true to say he doesn’t work as much as he should, I think he’s very clever and he could help the company a lot.
Jackie
In this next clip, John Humphrys says something that Tony Blair disagrees with. What’s the phrase that Tony Blair uses to interrupt him?
EXAMPLES
John Humphrys
Elected their own government, we’re now telling…
Tony Blair
Well, hang on a minute John! They excluded…
John Humphrys
Oh no well you added those bits…
Tony Blair
Well hang on…
John Humphrys
You added those bits…
Tony Blair
No, no, before any of those things…
Jackie
Hang on a minute. This sometimes just means wait, but here it’s a way of saying, Stop, I don’t agree and there’s something I want to say. He then corrects him.
EXAMPLES
John Humphrys
Elected their own government, we’re now telling…
Tony Blair
Well, hang on a minute John! They excluded…
John Humphrys
Oh no well you added those bits…
Tony Blair
Well, hang on…
John Humphrys
You added those bits…
Tony Blair
No, no, before any of those things…
Jackie
Let’s end on some very strong statements of disagreement.
EXAMPLES
Tony Blair
Process but…
John Humphrys
You’d already decided by then.
Tony Blair
That is really not true, but, I mean…
Tony Blair
I most certainly do not accept that he was not a threat.
Jackie
Both Tony Blair’s words and his tone of voice make it very clear he disagrees. He uses the adverbs really and most certainly to show how strongly he disagrees with what’s been said.
EXAMPLES
Tony Blair
That is really not true, but, I mean…
I most certainly do not accept that he was not a threat.
Jackie
Finally, there are some very strong informal – and sometimes quite rude – ways of disagreeing with someone that you might come across, although be careful about when you use them. Here they are.
EXAMPLES
That’s nonsense!
That’s rubbish!
Jackie
Again, these expressions can be made stronger, this time, with adjectives.
EXAMPLES
That’s complete nonsense!
That’s absolute rubbish!
Jackie
Although Tony Blair did seem to get quite cross in this interview, he never got quite angry enough to use those words.
Language in the programme
This programme is all about expressions you can use when you want to tell someone that you disagree with them (you think what they are saying is wrong).
We do this with the help of the then British Prime Minister, Tony Blair. He was recently interviewed by a BBC journalist and there were lots of phrases expressing disagreement in the conversation! Blair was in the post from 1997 to 2007.
Useful vocabulary for disagreeing
- I don’t agree.
- That’s not true. (quite direct)
- I don’t accept that. (quite formal)
Using No
No is usually followed by a statement:
No,
- I don’t think that’s what happened.
- that’s not a good idea.
Strong ways of saying you disagree
That’s
- rubbish!
- nonsense!
Be careful – unless said as a joke, these usually sound quite aggressive! They can be made stronger with adjectives.
That’s
- complete nonsense!
- absolute rubbish!
- total nonsense!
Ways to interrupt and disagree with what somebody has said
Hang on!
- Hang on a minute!
That’s not what she did at all!
Structures to use when agreeing with one part but disagreeing with others
Although
- it’s true to say that + what you agree with, then what you disagree with.
- it’s fair to say that + what you agree with, then what you disagree with.
While
- I agree that + what you agree with, then what you disagree with.
Examples:
Although it’s true to say that
- he is intelligent, I don’t think he works well in a team.
While I agree that
- we should leave soon, I think we should finish this work first.
Note: this structure can also be used to bring in a contrasting idea.