Introduction

Georgie teaches you some phrasal verbs that can be used to talk about feelings. 

Phrasal verbs mentioned

bottle up (feelings/emotions)
keep feelings hidden and suppressed instead of talking about them

  • He tends to bottle up his anger, which often leads to stress.
  • Don’t bottle up your emotions; it’s important to talk about how you feel.

open up
share your feelings freely and openly 

  • After years of keeping everything inside, she finally opened up to her therapist.
  • He finds it hard to open up about his past, even to close friends.

hold back/hold (something) back
hesitate or restrain oneself from saying or doing something

  • He wanted to tell her the truth, but he decided to hold back.
  • She had to hold back her tears during the emotional movie.
  • I tried to hold back my laughter during the meeting, but it was impossible.

break down
lose control of your emotions and start crying

  • After weeks of stress, he finally broke down and cried.
  • She broke down in tears when she heard the sad news.

blow up
lose emotional control in an angry way

  • He blew up at his work colleague for making the same mistake again.
  • The teacher blew up when the students wouldn’t stop talking.

freak out
lose emotional control (from shock, excitement, fear etc.)

  • Don’t freak out, but there’s a spider on your shoulder!
  • She freaked out when she saw her favourite popstar on the street. 

calm down
return to a state of calmness or relaxation after feeling intense emotions

  • After taking a few deep breaths, I started to calm down. 
  • He needed a few minutes to calm down after the argument.

chill out
relax

  • They spent the weekend chilling out by the beach, forgetting about their worries.
  • You need to chill out and stop worrying so much about the exam.

TOP TIPS!

  • If you see the word ‘something’, it usually means the verb requires an object.
  • If ‘something’ is in the middle of the phrasal verb, it means that it can be separated by the object (but doesn’t have to be).
  • If ‘something’ is at the end of the phrasal verb, it means it cannot be separated.
  • When a pronoun, e.g. him, her, them, is the object of a separable phrasal verb, it must go between the verb and the particle.