Introduction
This means making someone believe something that isn’t true, but in a jokey way. Learn how to use this expression here.
Feifei
Hello and welcome to The English We Speak, where we explain phrases used by fluent English speakers so that you can use them as well. I’m Feifei, and I’m here with Beth.
Beth
Hi Feifei. I’ve got some exciting news. I won the lottery yesterday, and now I’m super rich! You can come over to my mansion this weekend, if you like.
Feifei
Really?
Beth
No, I’m just having you on! I didn’t win the lottery. I’m only joking.
Feifei
You really had me on there. And that’s a great example of our phrase ‘have someone on’. It means you’re joking or teasing someone, making them believe something that isn’t true.
Beth
Exactly. It’s a playful trick, but it isn’t mean at all – it’s just a joke. A bit like when my best friend told me she’d met the King. She said they’d had coffee and cake and chatted all day, and then I realised she was having me on.
Feifei
No way. Well, erm, something happened to me the other day. I came into the office, and then Neil told me that we were all given that day off, so I was ready to pack up and go and then realized he was having me on.
Beth
That is really annoying!
Feifei
Let’s hear some more examples of ‘have someone on’.
Examples
My son told me he’s been picked to play football for England schoolboys. I think he’s having me on.
My sister told me she’s got a new boyfriend and it’s this famous actor. I think she’s having me on.
What? We’ve been picked for the finals. Nah, you’re having me on.
Beth
Now, we often say ‘you’re having me on’ when you don’t believe what you’re hearing. You think it’s so unbelievable that it must be a joke.
Feifei
Yes. A similar but less common expression is ‘you’re pulling my leg’. Both of these can be used in a light-hearted way. Right, Beth, I’ve got to go. I’m flying to Australia in a few hours.
Beth
Really? Oh, you’re having me on! Well, that’s all from us. We’ll be back next time with another useful English phrase. Bye-bye.
Feifei
Bye!